A broken rose

I always break when I see flowers and bees crying over broken hearts because of entering a gaseous relationship. It tears me apart when they already knew that the thing won’t hold for a moment but they will still try to pick up the broken pieces to put it together. Should I say solidfying it. The relationship is broken even before you go for it. But why are they so blinded ,they forget you can never take shelter in a roofless house. I only know one thing, intimacy is a true definition of a relationship.

Intimacy in relationships is key issue. Use your dating time to grow a friend not a lover. Most people believe intimacy is developed through sex especially in this quick world but these people just scracth the surface of it, it is deeper than that. This generation is very impatient and being part of it,it hurts me that we forget our values.Intimacy involves sharing inner most thoughts,desires,dreams and oneness in spirit. Its true that you maybe in the same room but in two different worlds just like being miles apart but together at heart.Before you continue dating,do you have purpose?Or you are doing it because all your friends are dating.We all know dating is preparing for marriage ,well if your dating for fun you had better quit . One should remember that people never change, all those small silly habits you can’t bear during dating will carry on to marriage. You either have to appreciate and embrace them or not trying a marriage if you cant stand them. Intimacy develops like a zygote in the woman’s womb, it has no short cut, not even sex can make you intimate. Remember you need a friend ,sex gets boring . You really need a life partner.

Someone will ask,”how ” well the first step towards intimacy is to take off attention from you, put aside your fear and shyness there you will learn to listen to your partner, understand their fears,joys,pain among others. You should walk in agreement with your friend ,don’t mind the little fights. They always happen,for as long as he/she still loves you even when you fight. Disagree in agreement.

Truth be told,being single is peaceful but as you prepare to date,put it at the back of your mind that you don’t need to date when you really crave for it. Seek the spirit of God first then other things happen without your knowledge , God is in control.